3 Things I Do Well as a Mom and 3 Things I Don’t
As a mom, I often find myself reflecting on the things I do well and the areas where I can improve. Motherhood is a journey filled with ups and downs, and I believe it’s important to acknowledge both our strengths and our struggles.
What I’m Good At
1. Staying Calm in Any Scenario
One of my strengths is my ability to stay calm, even in chaotic situations. I’ve learned that nothing is ever as serious as it seems in the moment. Our lives are very hectic and fast paced so I remind myself to breathe and keep a level head. This calmness not only helps me but also sets a reassuring tone for my daughter.
2. Making Life Fun and Enjoyable
I love creating little joys for my daughter. Whether it’s a spontaneous day trip or something simple we stir up at home, I’m always trying to make her days feel light, fun, and full of memories. Traveling with her has become one of my favorite parts of motherhood. Seeing new places is something we both look forward to now. She’s always interested in whatever’s happening around her.
3. Teaching Independence at a Young Age
I believe in fostering independence in my daughter from an early age. She started dance classes at just two years old, and I encourage her to engage in independent play. Whether she’s at the gym daycare or tackling a new activity on her own, I take pride in watching her grow and thrive as an independent little person.
What I'M Not SO GOOd At
1. Asking for Help
Despite my strengths, I often struggle with asking for help. I tend to take on too much myself, thinking I can handle everything. I’m learning that it’s okay to reach out for support and that it doesn’t make me any less of a mom.
2. Slowing Down
In the hustle of daily life, I find it hard to slow down and enjoy the moment. I’m always on the go, juggling tasks and responsibilities. I’m working on being more present and taking time to savor every part of motherhood.
3. Overcoming Fear and Anxiety
As a mom, my mind often races with worries about my daughter’s safety. I tend to overthink situations and see potential hazards everywhere. While it’s natural to be protective, I’m working on managing my anxiety and finding a balance between being cautious and allowing her the freedom to explore. I want her to feel empowered while also knowing I’m there to support her.